TGIFridays

Thank God It’s Friday!!!!!!!

I am definitely reclaiming my Fridays from today!

I am excited about

my boy’s birthday tonight 🙂

Party like its 2012 🙂

Today I am feeling

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My Funky Friday Theme Song Is

Radio - STL

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This weekend I

am planning on chilling out, no late nights except tonight and bonding with the girls.

I am really craving

all you can eat buffet at Fogo Gaucho, that meat was just heavenly 🙂

I wish

I had not worn this skirt, it is shorter than I had anticipated, and it looks like it’s gonna rain today 0_O

I hope

my pessimistic view of life did not come bite me in the ass 😦 I think it kinda did….

Today’s Inspirational Quote Is

Joshua 1:9
Have I not commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be terrified; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go.”

Have a Fantastic Friday!!!

Baby by someone else??

So the current /past I dunno I’m confused prospect told me he had baggage. Immediately I heard that, my mind jumped into a frenzy coming up with crazy conclusions, psychoest being he has a child.

Thought number one in my head was oh shit my mother would die of disapproval. She’s already warned me about Kikuyu men, but in addition to that a baby? Another human being? I had already decided not to divulge that piece of information unless it was absolutely necessary, and at the rate at which we were going, it might not be necessary.

Second thought was, I do not want baby mama drama, I am too young for that stress. I need your undivided attention, call me selfish but I deserve it.

Fourthly, what if your child doesn’t like me? I find children intimidating, so some kinda scare me. I like kids, but I do not know if I can really take care of them. You can only do so much blackmailing. This definitely calls for bonding sessions with my nephews and friends babies.

Thought number five, I am not ready to be a step mother. I can barely take care of myself let alone another human being.

With all these thoughts racing through my mind, I came to the conclusion that I am not ready to date a man with kids. I am not mature enough, and I am too busy doing me right now.

Thank God that wasn’t the baggage he was talking about, but he did give me great food for thought.

I know a couple of people with kids, most out of wedlock. Some are lucky enough to be in a relationship with the people who sired their children. Others are not so lucky, and for them I really pray God sends honest people their way who are responsible enough for such a commitment.

I spotted Valerie Kimani 2 weeks ago with someone who appeared to be her new beau at a local cinema, and they were acting all lovey dovey mushy mushy. I just thought she must be very lucky having found someone despite everything that’s happened. It has also just hit me, that she may be harbouring the next big thing in music in her womb.

Would you date someone who has a child??

TGIFridays

Thank God It’s Friday!!!!

Is it just me, or has this week flown?? It was just Monday the other day! But I won’t complain love it.

I am excited about

Sunday 🙂

Today I am Feeling

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My Funky Friday Theme Song Is

Gallis Medley. That is like my ultimate feel good song, found out its name this week. If you hear a loud scream when it starts playing wherever you may be, that’s me.

This weekend I

am gonna shop till I drop, have some fun, and meet some people.

I am really craving

I want geeky spectacles, and girly stunners both of which i do not have.

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I wish

life was not so short, and unpredictable when it comes to how long we get to live it. I wish people, things and circumstances did not have to change.

I hope

things go well on Sunday, I am excited and nervous all at the same time 0_O

Today’s Inspirational Quote Is

Have a Feel Good Friday!!!!

TGIFridays

Thank God It’s Friday!!!!!!

Wow it’s been a while, but I’m back and hopefully this will go back to being a weekly post 🙂

I am excited about

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the new developments in my life 🙂

Today I am feeling

free, happy despite the rain, I am a pocket full of sunshine 🙂

My Funky Friday Theme Song Is

Up, Up and Away

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This weekend I

am indulging in some full on rest and relaxation, I can’t be forever young all the time.

I am really craving

I dunno, a beach, new shoes, him…

I wish

my new computer hard audio hardware, i need to listen to my music!!

I hope

things do not get complicated, I like that my life is no longer stressful.

Today’s Inspirational Quote Is

Have A Fantabulous Friday!!!!

The foolish games men and women play

Nothing ever seems to be simple, and straight forward when it comes to the interaction between men and women. Things always have to be complicated!

Love games

Men chase after women just to see if they can succeed, women play hard to get so as not to come off as easy, or maybe even to see if there is a guy out there who is persistent enough to break those barriers.

And you wonder why things are usually so complicated. No one ever wants to be honest and straight forward. because it will just be used against you.

Personally I find all this crap quite tasking. I have to like analyse and think about what to say, or how to act aaaarrgghhh.

I think I am starting to see how men feel. For the longest time, men have gone around breaking women’s hearts, but now the opposite is true. Women are leaving a string of broken hearts all over Nairobi and the rest of the world? they are literally eating men’s hearts out.

The feminist side of me thinks, way to go!! Finally men can see how the shoe fits!!!

The rest of me however keeps witnessing the damage done to men by these women, and faces the aftermath of those effects. I’ve been meeting men who have lost their faith in the existence of good women, and have no trust in them at all. Who knew men are all so vulnerable and soft and the way ya’ll front about being hardcore and wat not :p

Now I kinda know how men feel, being stereotyped even before anyone gives you any real chance to prove yourself, it is not a good feeling actually. I guess it then reaches a point where we have to choose who to trust despite our past experience, and whether you will make an effort to break down those guards people put up, and prove that you’re a cut above the rest. If we can’t trust each other, who is there to trust?