More than friends??

No I am not falling for my friend or vice versa. It’s just something I thought I would write about after indulging in reruns of Friends. 

Can men and women be just platonic??? 

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That is an age old question which has been debated upon for years and years. But who can give us the right answer really??? 

I am sure everyone has a different opinion on this. My two cents is, it really depends on the people involved. We all may have different friends with whom we have different relationships with. 

My male friends are categorised into two: just friends and prospects. I have had enough bored moments to analyse all of them and determine whether i’d consider crossing the friend zone or not with them. The criteria used in this selection is determined by your looks, your mannerisms, how we relate with each other, and of course the type of person you are. 

I do believe it is possible for men and women to be just friends, but mostly with people they are not attracted to. The thing about attraction though, is it can at times appear from nowhere so it really is unpredictable. 

I think it also depends on some traits that are intrinsically in us as men and women. Men are visual people and if they notice things they find visually stimulating from their female friends, maybe things might change??  As for women, we are more in tune with our emotional side so chances of getting emotionally attached to a friend can happen. 

Are the best relationships derived from existing friendships?? 

Is what you know better than something new and fresh that you have no idea about?? Personally I have never dated a friend, I do not know if I would to because I think once you cross that line you can never go back, things will change forever. Things may turn out well if your lucky the whole living happily ever after and what not thing or things could turn out badly and you not only lose a partner but a friend.  

Of course dating a friend has some major perks. There are no games because you already know each other inside out so there is no need for pretending. Things are laid back and relaxed, jitters are a bit less. 

On the flip side, the familiarity may also be to your detriment. There might be less effort on both sides to for example dress to impress, take you to fancy places, it may be difficult to change the habits or routines you had as friends though it really may not be necessary to change them. 

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAPA

It’s my daddy’s birthday tomorrow 🙂

Love you :-*

He is turning 57 but he doesn’t look a day over 45!!! He is forever young at every sense of the word!!

 For real!! Ask any of my cousin’s, he is their favorite uncle. He is also kinda psycho maybe thats where all my madness comes from. He bought a bong in 2001 from Egypt which we display proudly on the mantle on top of the fire place in our living room.

He was Santa for two christmasses, and two years ago during our Family Christmass Talent Show he switched things up and was a Sheikh Santa lol.

 My dad is very kind and generous, and he always comes through for me whenever I need him.

I really love the way he greets my mother every day when she gets home from work, with excitement, like he is seeing her for the first time after ages, and always compliments her on how great she looks.

My dad is very friendly, social and loud!! You can spot him from anywhere, it’s the guy with a big bright smile, who’s always jovial.

I am currently broke at the moment, and I have no idea what I will do for him for his birthday. He isn’t a fan of cake so that’s outta the list phew 🙂 So my two options are either a bottle of his favorite drink vodka or I buy him a nice shirt, or another argyle sweater so he can start a collection.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY PAPA!!!!!!

Just a day..

Today was a good Monday 🙂

Nothing special happened, but there was a significant change in my schedule which I embraced with open arms.

I also may have a chance to help out a friend, and I really pray things will work out for the best.

I cannot wait to get home to my bed right now, this is a perfect depiction of how it looks right now…

Blankets full of sunshine

So as you have clearly noticed, this post is not about anything in particular, I am just writing whatever pops up in my head chances to blog are rare so im ceasing the day.

Muhahahahaha

I came across this picture on the net, and it was like the universe was just speaking to me. Damn my bloody conscience, i would probably just drive by rather than ran him over which he so totally deserves.

Anyhoosmu I lived and I learnt, and I am definitely far better off now.

Deuces,

TGIFridays

Thank God It’s Friday!!!!

Circumstances have changed so i might not always get to do TGIFridays every Friday religiously 😦

I am excited about

my cousin flying in with her family and meeting my nephew for the first time 🙂

Today I am Feeling

Drifting where the wind will take me...

My Funky Friday Theme Song Is

Crush - Paramore

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This weekend I

plan on catching up with people I have not seen in a while.

I am really craving

Fudge

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I wish

I never took my idleness before for granted, I miss having free time 😦

I hope

I wasnt given something to hope for just for it to crush and burn. My hopes are not up yet, but at least I know what to pray for specifically.

Today’s Inspirational Quote Is

‘Flaming enthusiasm, backed up by horse sense and persistence, is the quality that most frequently makes for success.’

Have a Fun Friday!!!!

 

 

 

 

 

Totally random

Facebook made me hate that word Random. I think everyone has an album called random yawn.

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In Nairobi, the rain rarely elicits such excitement. Rain comes with traffic, mud, lack of clothes to wear, lazyness, power outages, thunderstorms, boredom, floods.

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22 more days to the end of lent….

Chuck Bass and Blair Warldof make one HOT couple!!!

Sponge Bob square pants

Club Kiboko please bring back the best funniest cartoon ever??

lolcat

In Memory of Biggie Smalls who died 13 years ago today RIP!

I think I am starting to understand what a lol cat is…

Zac Effron

I think I need to start taking more black and white photos, they create some really artistic pictures.

I am not such a big fan of these Disney kids, they are young, hot and talented 😦  I never got what the big deal was about Zac Effron, but until I watched 17 again, I have conceded, he is hot!!!

I need to be carefree and peaceful like this girl in the picture, with no troubles at all.  I need to go swimming as well, those slides for Village Market would be a great place to go. Wish I had a free weekday to go do that.

lollipop

I LOVE lollipops!!! I eat them whenever I can. I saw a big one like this at a candy stand at Yaya Centre jana worth 300 Kshs. Aki I am so gonna buy it and eat it at a public place.

The Blueprint 3 – Jay-Z

When word came out about this album I was super excited!! I adore Jay-Z he is definitely my favorite rapper.

The Blueprint 3

Whats the album art about??

Just like Black Album, Jay-Z did it again!! Kingdom Come and American Gangstar were aight, but BP3 is GREAT!!!

The first single debuted from the album was D.O.A death of auto tune, a song which TPayne did not take a shine to because of the obvious. I did not mind the song, but I loved Jiggas hair all grown out, he looked edgy and cool.

The next hyped up song was Run This Town featuring Rihanna and Kanye West. The video really shed some light on the whole controversy about Jay-Z being an Illuminati and what not. The whole Roc-a-Fella diamond symbol being placed between the eye is apparently some Illuminati sign. I still do not know what my take on the whole issue is, that’s another post for another day.

Empire State of Mind is a big tune! I absolutely love it!! It does actually live you in an empire state of mind. Alicia Keys does a brilliant job on vocals and on the piano it’s just an amazing song. Line’s like

‘Jesus playing Lebron I’m playing Dwayne Wade’

Further fuelled the whole Illuminati business.

How can we not talk about On to the next one featuring Swizzy with amazing beats, prolific video. Jay-Z looks very hot, yes I think he is hot, he works with what he’s got. The song definitely gives you a cool philosophy for life, when things seem to be going wrong, just move on to the next one..

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Jay-Z’s versatility is displayed in Forever Young with Mr. Hudson. Amazing song, I am embarrassed to say I have never watched the video, but that’s something Youtube will sort me out with.

I really like As real as it gets featuring young Jeezy, the instrumentals touch my heart, and I really think it’s a song to look out for. If they do not make a video for it I’d be really disappointed.

Drake is the hottest rapper on the scene right now so it comes as no surprise that he was featured in Off That, an absolutely banging track that sounds like a Timberland production. So if you still on Cristal, Timbs, and Rims, just get off that!

A star is Born also gets my mark of approval, and I like how Jay-Z sounds in Venus vs Mars.

Kid Cudi features on Already Home and he sounds amazing on the hook, I really think this will be a hit right there.

Haters featuring Kanye West is just okay, nothing special, so is Reminder.

The last track on BP3 is So Ambitious featuring Pharell, and I am glad these two came together yet again. The pair make amazing music together, this track is nice and mellow.

What I love about this album is that I enjoy listening to every song. I think Blue Print 3 was very nicely done, and it has been doing very well. It’s currently number 32 in the Billboard 200 and is the 3rd hottest rap album this week. So if you’re a Jay-Z fan, or you like hip hop get a hold of this album!